IAM2887 – Stop Comparing Yourself꞉ Use Your Experience to Build Strategy

The Trap of the Comparison Filter

A pervasive roadblock for high-achieving builders is letting the visible success of competitors dictate their internal sense of value. It is entirely too easy to obsess over another company's results, client roster, and public visibility while completely ignoring the full operational path that actually got them there. In this episode, drawing vital insights from executive learning and leadership consultant Liz on episode 80 of the I AM CEO podcast, we break down why comparison is always asking the wrong question—and how to use your experience to build strategy and help others grow.

The Strategy and Human Pillars: Turning Comparison Into Proof

True execution within the Strategy and Human Pillars proves that while a corporate roadmap identifies your next move, your internal belief ultimately determines whether you possess the capacity to execute it. When leaders stay stuck studying competitor lanes, they effectively lock themselves inside someone else's business instead of driving strategic focus toward their own.

Instead of using another founder's milestones to make your enterprise feel smaller, premier leaders treat market success as concrete evidence that the opportunity actually exists. Shifting your perspective from “why them” to “why not me” isn't a declaration of baseline entitlement; it is a strategic decision to stop disqualifying your organization before the market ever gets the opportunity to respond.

Elevating Beyond Day-to-Day Exhaustion

The core takeaway for any CEO is the executive mandate to step completely out of daily task loops and elevate to a truly strategic level of leadership. Building high-impact programs, masterminds, and workshops requires turning operational exhaustion into streamlined efficiency. To run your own race effectively, you must stop tracking what your competitors possess and start maximizing the unique value your specific background allows you to bring differently.

Looking into another operator's lane only slows down your execution and dilutes your distinct competitive advantage. Ask yourself this defining question: “Whose success have you been using to discourage your team, instead of leveraging it as absolute proof of market possibility?”. Embracing your lived experience as a specialized asset is the definitive lever required to eliminate market noise and scale your true potential.

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Transcription:

Gresham Harkless 00:00
Comparison usually starts with someone else's results and ends with you questioning your own value. You see what they built, who they work with, how visible they are, but you don't see the full path that actually got them there.

If you're building something meaningful, you're in the right place. This is the I Am CEO Podcast. I'm gresh, and for over a decade I've had the honor and the privilege of Learning directly from CEOs, entrepreneurs and business owners just like you on how to build after recording more than 1600 episodes, one thing has become clear. Success isn't about following someone else's blueprint. And as I like to say on the show, if you run your own race, you can't lose. Even when we feel the journey should be a straight and linear path. When I've come to find out is success is a lot more like a plate of spaghetti. So in this special segment and episode, I'm starting to curate and share some CEO hacks and CEO nuggets that I've been dying to share. Drawn from thousands of of episodes with phenomenal guests that have provided awesome value on the show, but also my 10 years of business experience as well too. These lessons are designed to strengthen the foundational principles that every business is built on and guided by a simple equation that we always go back to with our content. Visibility plus resources times connections equals success. This is practical wisdom you can apply almost immediately, so be sure to check out the show notes for more resources and next steps on how to level up. And of course, enjoy this special episode of the I Am CEO Podcast.

Gresham Harkless 01:33
Comparison usually starts with someone else's results and ends with you questioning your own value. You see what they built, who they work with, how visible they are, but you don't see the full path that actually got them there. That's what stood out to me during episode number 80 with Liz. Liz, an executive coach and and learning and leadership consultant who helps entrepreneurs bring their expertise to life through programs, workshops, masterminds and other learning initiatives. Liz shared and really candidly talked around how she went through a season of studying competitors, wondering how they landed clients she wanted to work with. She looked at their backgrounds and found herself thinking that maybe they were simply lucky. Then and only then, she changed the question. Instead of asking why them? She asked, why not me? And therein lies the nugget that I would run with. So why not me? Does not ignore the work experience or development. It's still required. It means no longer using someone else's success as evidence that opportunity is unavailable to you builders can use comparison in two different ways. One way makes you smaller. You look at the other person and create a list of reasons you don't measure up and how you're not good enough. The other way creates evidence. If someone else built it, serve the market, create the opportunity, or reach the audience, then the possibility exists. This connects to two pillars, the human and the strategy. Pillar strategy helps you to identify the next move, but your internal belief determine whether you'll actually make it. This helps leaders turn exhaustion into efficiency into focus. And she also described being a CEO as stepping out of the day to day and elevating to that strategic level. Comparison can keep you mentally stuck in somebody else's business instead of thinking strategically about your own business. Here's a nugget that you should definitely carry with you and you start to like, implement. I would say immediately stop asking what they have that you don't, and start asking what your own experience allows you to rank differently. As I always say, if you run your own race, you can't lose. But if you're so busy looking into somebody else's lane, that doesn't allow you to lean into your lane and run your race better and in a way that no one else can. Here's a question worth thinking about a little bit more. Whose success have you been using to discourage yourself instead of using it as proof that the opportunity exists? Because why not me Is not entitlement, it's actually permission to stop disqualifying yourself before the market ever gets the chance to respond. If comparison has been slowing down your execution, this conversation with Liz is definitely one worth checking out.