Mary Sue Dahill has the unique ability to translate technology for non-techies. She helps business owners invest in the right digital tools that save them money and time, while they avoid the frustration of tools that don’t work. Mary Sue helps businesses streamline their systems, leverage the right digital tools, and automate workflows–so they can work smart and maximize their time and money for the greatest impact.
Her clients grow faster with more profit because they don’t have to hire people to do tasks that can be automated and don’t waste money on digital tools that don’t do the job.
- CEO Hack: The Rocketbook to make notes
- CEO Nugget: Selecting a digital tool using three things – G2Crowd for software reviews, Zapier for integration information, and lastly check out its health information
- CEO Defined: (1) Having a vision of where the business is going (2) Thinking strategically of where I'm going
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Intro 0:02
Do you want to learn effective ways to build relationships, generate sales, and grow your business from successful entrepreneurs, startups, and CEOs without listening to a long, long, long interview?
If so, you've come to the right place. Gresham Harkless values your time and is ready to share with you precisely the information you're in search of.
This is the I AM CEO Podcast.
Gresham Harkless 0:29
Hello. Hello. Hello. This is Gresh from the I AM CEO podcast and I have a very special guest on the show today. I have Mary Sue Dahill of Work Smarter Digital.
Mary Sue, it's awesome to have you on the show.
Mary Sue Dahill 0:39
Thank you. It's great to be here.
Gresham Harkless 0:41
Definitely super excited to have you on. What I want to do is just read a little bit more about Mary Sue, so you can hear about all the awesome things that she's doing.
Mary Sue has the unique ability to translate technology for non-techies. She helps business owners invest in the right tool, digital tools that save them money and time. While they avoid the frustration of tools that don't work, Mary Sue helps businesses streamline their systems, leverage the right digital tools, and automate workflows so they can work smart and maximize their time and money for the greatest impact.
Her clients grow fast, faster with more profit because they don't have to hire people to do tasks that can be automated and don't waste money on digital tools that don't do their job.
Mary Sue, are you ready to speak to the I AM CEO community?
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Mary Sue Dahill 1:21
I am.
Gresham Harkless 1:22
Awesome. Well, your bio was definitely like music to my soul, so I appreciate all the awesome things you're doing for the business community. I wanted to hear a little bit more about how you got started, can you tell us your CEO story? When did you start your business?
Mary Sue Dahill 1:33
Sure. So I have about 20 years of experience in technology management. A lot of that was at Blackboard, which many of your listeners have probably used. When I started working for myself was 2017. I started doing similar stuff to what I had been doing at Blackboard, so project management of a software development team kind of work, and I was working for much larger tech companies. That was fine. However, I did find working for myself I was struggling with all of the same things that any small business struggles with, even though I felt very organized as a person.
So I started looking to digital tools to help me and I figured out how to do it. I got a lot of little tools that I was using that were pretty inexpensive and making me very efficient. In that process, I found that other small business owners did not have my skill set, so they were just drowning. In the fall of 2018, I actually pivoted to focus on the micro-businesses and really small businesses and their digital tools. It's been wonderful ever since because I really have such a big impact on their day-to-day life.
Gresham Harkless 2:50
Yeah, absolutely. I don't know if you find this a lot, I think a lot of clients probably end up saying I didn't even know that that existed, that tool, that trick or you can even do that. I think once you get awareness around those things, it makes you pretty and can make you pretty unstoppable.
Mary Sue Dahill 3:04
Yes, I agree.
Gresham Harkless 3:06
Awesome. So I wanted to hear a little bit more about like, how you work with customers, your process, and what exactly you do to kind of help support them.
Mary Sue Dahill 3:13
Yeah, because a lot of people don't know what's possible, I actually do go out and speak a lot about automation to different groups. But when I start working with a client, we start with kind of the identification phase, you know, we talk through all of the operations of their business, and where they're having bottlenecks, where there are gaps and things are likely falling through the cracks, or where they're also re-entering the same information in multiple places. So from that, then we talk about what they want to achieve with their business. You know, is their business growing? Are they starting a new kind of service, that sort of thing.
Once I have that picture, then we start talking actually about the types of tools that would be best in their business. If they have a lot of tools, I might actually do an audit of those tools because I do find no matter the company, or how techy the person is, they aren't using all of the integrations that they may have within the tools they already own and then we select the tools that are right for them. I help them actually set it up and automate it. Usually, I'm focusing on not so much the marketing, it's you know, how do you deal with the prospecting process to selling to onboarding, invoicing payment, the kind of service delivery phase, and then the ongoing communication afterward. So those are the things that I focus on.
One of my clients I love to talk about, her name is Celie and her business is simple so she's a professional organizer. So I loved working with her because everything had a system. It was all paper, I mean, literally everything paper and is nicely organized, you know. But she was like, I just need some extra time.Her projects are all day and she has a team of people that she would pull from to work on different projects. She's literally booked, I think four to five days a week, every week. She had no way of scheduling that. Like her biggest bottleneck was how do I pull from my pool of 20 people to work on specific projects?
We didn't do anything fancy because she was using a paper calendar, she was not using her Google Calendar. So we came up with just something simple, where she would fill out a Google form for her project. It had all the information that she needed, and it would actually set up the customer invoice system. It would put them into her mailing list, which she was not doing regularly and then it would set up a calendar appointment on that day for her project. She could just invite her subcontractors, and if they accepted it, they were saying they could accept the project. I'm happy to say in 2020, she did not buy a paper 2020 calendar. She'll call me and be like I need to set up this app from Zapier.
Gresham Harkless 6:24
That's beautiful. She's one of the tribe, I guess you could say. No, that's awesome, and I think that I love how you broke down exactly how you were able to do that, and how I think sometimes when business owners have certain practices and things that they do, the way that they're doing business, the way they're invoicing clients, whatever that might be, that they don't realize that it can be a small adjustment, like adding a calendar, and that can create all those domino effects that really start to make them more effective and efficient, make the experience more consistent, and less likely to have things kind of fall through the cracks it sounds.
Mary Sue Dahill 6:59
Exactly, yes. She was able to get the time she wanted back in the evening because she wasn't doing all that data entry.
Gresham Harkless 7:06
Right. Exactly. I love the fact that you kind of talked about, when I read in your bio for non-techies as well. I'm a techie so I love technology. But I think there are so many kinds of improvements of these products as well to like when you sometimes have a product and you've had it for like three years, you don't realize like all the untapped potential, as you kind of spoke to that might be there that we haven't really even visited.
Mary Sue Dahill 7:30
Exactly. That's something that since I've been doing this a year, my mentor was like you should have an annual review of their digital ecosystem for that very reason.
Gresham Harkless 7:42
Yeah, that's a really great idea. Because I think that a lot of times as the businesses grow and expand as well, too, they just like the software and the systems themselves improve. We also probably have more problems that come up, and they might be able to be solved in different ways. So I think that's a phenomenal idea.
Mary Sue Dahill 7:59
Yes, and we pivot a lot of small businesses so all those little pivots and adjustments can impact your system itself.
Gresham Harkless 8:07
Exactly. That makes so much sense. So what would you consider to be what I like to call your secret sauce or the thing that sets you or your organization apart?
Mary Sue Dahill 8:15
Um, yeah, I was thinking about this one, what is my secret sauce? I think what it is, is that when I'm talking to someone, I can make connections about how they're doing their work, and paying attention to like their habits or their mode of working, and then connecting it to the digital tools. I do find that especially small businesses, they buy the tools that their friends suggested. It doesn't necessarily mean that it fits for them. So you know, just because you have a CRM does not mean that it works for everyone.
So I feel like that's what I do match the right tool to them as a person and to their business needs.
Gresham Harkless 8:57
Awesome. So I wanted to switch gears a little bit. I know we touched on some of these already, but I wanted to ask you for what I call a CEO hack. That could be like an app, book or habit that you have with some of the things that helped make you more effective and efficient.
Mary Sue Dahill 9:10
Um, well, just a natural part of who I am, is that I really am not a routine person. People think because I do systems that I like to check boxes, then I follow rules, but I'm not that person. I'm kind of you know, I'm my own worst enemy like anyone. But my recent thing that I love is the rocket book. Have you heard of this?
Gresham Harkless 9:30
I have not. Does it digitally go somewhere?
Mary Sue Dahill 9:33
Well, it's yeah, it's a reusable notebook. So the paper feels like paper but it's a bit more plasticky and you just use a normal pen. But it's an app that scans that and you can set up where it goes. So that's what I love. I can still take notes the way that I like taking notes because I tend to draw pictures and arrows. It helps me think and this makes it easy to capture it and put it in my client's folder, you know.
I'm on Google Drive, so I have places to send it. I love it, so it's gotten rid of a lot of paper around me.
Gresham Harkless 10:09
Yeah. Well, you know, it's so funny that you say that because as I literally sit here, writing now notes from what you're saying, I don't have the rocket book. But I definitely use my notes, because I still love writing and I missed the writing. But I also am notorious for writing something down, I can't find it in about a month or so because I placed it somewhere in some notebook that I'm not using anymore.
I love that just because I feel like there are things out there just like, you know, rocket book, just like, you know, when I'm writing on now that allow you to kind of mix the old school kind of writing down.
Mary Sue Dahill 10:38
Yes.
Gresham Harkless 10:39
The tangible thing with the digital, let's not lose this, that might need it later aspects.
Mary Sue Dahill 10:44
Yeah. And this is something because my clients tend to be people that have a paper calendar, and they're telling me they're overwhelmed. I'm like, You're my client.
Gresham Harkless 10:54
My drive.
Mary Sue Dahill 10:56
This was just a great step toward using the digital stuff. It makes you feel confident that you can achieve the automation and everything. But I mean, I love it just because it helps me pull my notes into where I'm going to be looking for them the next time without having to capture all these notebooks and flip through them. I have definitely done that.
Gresham Harkless 11:17
Yeah, I'm notorious for that so I try not to do that. My job is not to do that anymore. I shouldn't be writing stuff on paper, even though I still do. But we're all a work in progress.
I know you touched on this kind of a little bit. Do you feel like because you do kind of like this more structured thing for clients, what are some of the reasons why you feel like you want to have a little bit more freedom, maybe like a routine and things like that?
Mary Sue Dahill 11:42
Well, probably, I mean, what I like about having the systems is that then I don't have to think about it. That's like my biggest productivity hack is you can create a system to manage stuff, or you just automate it, and you never have to manage it again.
Gresham Harkless 11:57
Right.
Mary Sue Dahill 11:58
So that's what I prefer to do.
Gresham Harkless 12:00
Yes, I'm part of that tribe as well, too. There's a quote that says there's freedom and structure. It's not so much that you liked the structure, you'd like the structure so that you can be free to do whatever you need to do.
Mary Sue Dahill 12:10
Yes, yes, that's good, I'm gonna have to find that. I like that.
Gresham Harkless 12:13
Yeah, I don't know who said it. If you can't find it, then you can definitely say it was me. So I appreciate that.
Now, I wanted to ask you for what I call a CEO nugget. That could be like a word of wisdom or piece of advice or something you might tell a client or even your younger business self?
Mary Sue Dahill 12:29
Yeah, so my nugget is how to select a digital tool. Because I find this, a lot of people don't do this. I use kind of three, I do three things when I'm looking at digital tools. First, I start with G to crowd. So G is in George, the number two crowd. It's a crowdsourcing software review site. It's totally free and open for anyone to see. So if someone tells me about this new software that they purchased, I'll tell you my favorite tool is an active campaign. So I go in there, and I'll type in Active Campaign. I can read reviews about it.
But what I like better is I can see how it's categorized. So I think it's part of the CRM all in one. So I can go see what it means to be part of the CRM, only one category, what the other competitors are in that space, so maybe I can get ideas on then what other tools to be looking at. Then I go to Zapier to just make sure that it can integrate with other things. Because if you can't integrate your digital tools, that means you or one of your team members is going to be the integrator there, you're gonna be typing information. So that's the second.
Then the third is checking out their help documentation, because if you can't find information in the help, or find it useful, then you're gonna need an expert to actually set it up for you and all those sorts of things. So just make sure that it's usable to you and those three steps.
Gresham Harkless 14:04
Awesome. So now I want to ask you my absolute favorite question, what is the definition of what it means to be a CEO. We're hoping to have different quote and quote, CEOs on the show.
So Mary, Sue, what does being a CEO mean to you?
Mary Sue Dahill 14:15
I think for me, it means having that vision of where my business is going, because even though I'm a baby business, being a year old, I do have big plans that I'd like to have a team and all those things, but I need to be staying ahead of where I am and thinking strategically about where I'm going.
Gresham Harkless 14:31
Mary Sue, definitely appreciate that definition, appreciate your time, even more. When I wanted to do was pass you the mic so to speak, just to see if there's anything additional you want to let our readers and listeners know and then of course, how best they can get ahold of you and find out about all the awesome work.
Mary Sue Dahill 14:45
Sure. Well, I am doing what I'm calling a techno mastermind. It's a monthly Zoom call, essentially. I'm talking about different topics each month and it's totally free. I don't know that I gave you the link, but I'll send you the link. This next month's topic is information management. It's because I have a service called the paperless practice, where we use the rocket book, but it's a way of helping people really leverage their Google Drive or their OneDrive to manage all the information they have in their business in one place successfully.
So I have about the next several months, what's the next one? Oh, contracts. That's another one in asking a lawyer friend of mine to come and talk about kind of the dos and don'ts but also about the tools to get a signature and manage that in a more streamlined way. The best way to get in touch with me is my website, worksmarterdigital.com. My email is on there, you can schedule a call with me if you'd like to talk about your tools, the techno mastermind is also linked from there.
Gresham Harkless 15:57
Awesome. We'll definitely have those links and information in the show notes, but definitely appreciate obviously, you know what you're doing for so many entrepreneurs and business owners and definitely continually remind us how important it is to sharpen the saw and having those technical masterminds and opportunity to kind of hear from people in different fields exactly what they're doing as well too, so that we can again try to be as successful as possible. So I appreciate that. And we will have that information in the show notes again, and I hope you have a great rest of the day.
Outro 16:23
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Intro 0:02
Do you want to learn effective ways to build relationships, generate sales, and grow your business from successful entrepreneurs, startups, and CEOs without listening to a long, long, long interview? If so, you've come to the right+ place. Gresham Harkless values your time and is ready to share with you precisely the information you're in search of. This is the I AM CEO Podcast.
Gresham Harkless 0:29
Hello. Hello. Hello, this is Gresh from the I AM CEO podcast and have a very special guests on the show today. I have Dr. Nicole Gravagna of NeuroEQ. Dr. Nicole, it's awesome to have you on the show.
Dr. Nicole Gravagna 0:39
Thanks for having me. Gresh.
Gresham Harkless 0:40
No problem. Super excited to have you on and what I want to do is just read a little bit more about Dr. Nicole, so you can hear about all the awesome things that she's doing. And Dr. Nicole is a neuroscientist and the president of neuro EQ. She is also a prolific writer with articles in Forbes and Inc, and has posted over 1000 answers on Quora. She's published two books, venture capital for dummies and mindset, your money, your manners. Nicole, Dr. Nicole is also a board member for breaking the bias. Dr. Nicole, are you ready to speak to the I AM CEO community?
Dr. Nicole Gravagna 1:07
Absolutely. Let's go.
Gresham Harkless 1:09
Let's do it. So I wanted to kick everything off, I guess with where it started, I wanted to hear your story, your CEO story, we'll get started for business.
Dr. Nicole Gravagna 1:16
My CEO story starts in the laboratory. So I was a scientist first. And then I moved into the business side of things. And so I finished a PhD in neuroscience in 2011. And I quickly realized that this was something I was going to do outside of the lab, I was going to use neuroscience in a different way. And when I moved into the business side, I moved into what you would call the angel investing or the venture capital world, I wasn't doing the investing, I was supporting all of the work that goes on there. And actually, the book, venture capital for Dummies came out of that work that I was doing. So now if you imagine I don't have this fresh science background, and now I'm working with investors, and then from there, I had learned how to build a business by watching other people have their businesses invested in. And so I thought, well, maybe I could give that a go myself. And so I started building businesses that I saw needs for in the world. And now what I do is consulting for businesses, generally I do that the people side of change management. So anytime change and people are involved, that's generally where I fit.
Gresham Harkless 2:28
Nice. I definitely appreciate that. And do you find I know that? I always usually say this, and I've never been a scientist other than in science class when I was younger, do you find that those kind of same testing out skills and things like that translate really well into the business world?
Dr. Nicole Gravagna 2:45
Oh, yeah. So I think of everything as an experiment. And when I bring it up like that, in business settings, people go, Oh, you're right. I was having a meeting recently, with a group, they were talking about building a product or software product. And I said, Hey, so can we talk about who is using this software product? And I said, Can we talk about this as a dependent user and an independent user, and I was like, I'm just making this up. But it's sort of from science and independent variable and a dependent variable. And it really clarified what they were talking about in terms of all the different users for their software. So yes, my science is baked into everything that I think and everything that I do.
Gresham Harkless 3:21
Nice. And I know, you obviously, you know, focus on that people aspect and, and kind of change. And when those two things kind of intersect, could you I get to drill down a little bit on, you know, what that looks like, there might be people that may not fully understand what that looks like and how to see it and recognize that and how exactly, you help support that.
Dr. Nicole Gravagna 3:37
So here's an example of how we might work with a company is, generally the company is growing, a lot of times, there's some initiative to grow to twice the size in the next two years, or four years or five years. And that can be a really big strain on a company. And a lot of times it's the strain on the individuals and understanding how do I fit into this organization anymore? What do I even do here? Do I keep my title? How does this all work, but people don't talk about it that much. In terms of how they feel they talk about it in terms of what's owed them or their contracts with like that kind of thing. What we tend to do is start with a company will talk with the executives first we call it executive coaching. It's very simple, non invasive, we sit and talk with the top executives for about six months, like a couple of like an hour a month. And what we're doing is understanding what they care about what do they value? And we're also seeing where they feel stuck. Do they feel like they're having trouble influencing their peers? Do they feel like there's some kind of barrier in the industry or in the company that they haven't thought to look into has something changed and they've missed it? We're looking for all of those things. And then after six months, we often shift into starting to dig deeper into the company. To understand which layer of management do we need to look at next? We'll do experiments when I call them experiments, but really it tends to be like focus groups will talk to somebody lower down in the organization. So if we work with a company that's say makes a food product. So maybe let's say a company that makes pies. This is a company we've talked to recently. So if you think about a company that makes pies, they have people who are literally making pies. But they also have administrators, they have office people, they've got a board. And so there's this layer of folks from the actual pipemakers on the floor, all the way up to the people who are strategizing. And there's conversations that get lost along the way, going from the top down and from the bottom up. And so we really helped to, I think, ease those conversations, in terms of being able to tell everyone in their own language, what they need to hear from everybody else that maybe maybe started on a different language.
Gresham Harkless 5:42
Oh, nice. I love that. Because it kind of sounds like you're definitely translating, because I think sometimes we forget that about communication that, you know, we're communicating in order to have like that conversation and that back and forth. A lot of times we forget, kind of like the essence of that, and being able to not just talk to herself speak, but talk to communicate and have the person understand and realize and have that back and forth.
Dr. Nicole Gravagna 6:01
Yeah, so it was a really good example I have of how that language gets lost. We were able to measure behavior. There's like 100. And so behaviors that we can measure on a 100 point scale, and we just use somebody else's software. But we really use this data quite extensively. And what we're doing and, and one of the behaviors that we've noticed is very different. And the people in the office, versus the people on the floor of like a manufacturing or warehouse environment, is the people in the warehouse are thinking in terms of working to a standard, they do the same thing every day, they work to a standard, they're really trying to push as many boxes as they can up to a certain number. They're trying not to break anything, they're trying to make sure it all stays organized and gets into the truck, okay, they work to a standard, the people in the office are working to goals. It's not a standard, it's different every day, you're you're setting a goal, and you're achieving it over time. And then once you achieve it, poof, it's gone. And then you set a new goal, and you achieve that. So both are very productive ways of going about life. But they're very different ways of talking about productivity. And so at some point between those two groups of people in an organization, the gold, people don't necessarily think in standards and the standards, people don't necessarily think and goals. And so there's one layer of management that's going to have to do that translating. And if they're not conscious of it, they may translate it wrong, just like with any translation.
Gresham Harkless 7:20
Yeah, that makes so much sense. And you definitely need both of them as he talked about that codependent so to have one without the other is kind of not having a business or having a successful one at least. And I definitely appreciate that. Because I think so many times, I always say when you peel back the onion of business, you realize that it's made up of people. And I think so many times we gloss over that as we're looking to you for getting venture capital or something, you're scaling a company out, you think about the processes, how we're going to grow and scale and do all those things. But you don't think about all those integral details and aspects of people that are within the organization and how certain things and decisions affect them.
Dr. Nicole Gravagna 7:57
Yeah, you think if I just hire somebody with the right skills, and they're smart, it'll be fine.
Gresham Harkless 8:02
Right.
Dr. Nicole Gravagna 8:03
But there's ways of getting stuck that are so easy to overcome when you identify them like this difference between standards and goals.
Gresham Harkless 8:10
Absolutely, no, I appreciate you for articulating that and breaking that down. So we can definitely understand that. And I don't know is it that ability to kind of see those are see kind of maybe I don't know if I would say the forest for the trees, is that what you feel is like what I call your secret sauce. So the thing you feel kind of sets you apart and makes you unique.
Dr. Nicole Gravagna 8:26
It does seem to be something that people have identified in me that I do well, that they maybe don't realize that they or maybe they don't know how to do it, or they don't see it. And I wonder if it's partly because I was trained as a molecular biologist and neuroscientists that I thought about how the organism functions as a function of its molecules. And so maybe I'm thinking about a business as a function of its sub parts, which are the people's behaviors. And each individual has this whole set of behaviors. And so we can measure those on a really small scale and see how it affects the whole. So it's this ability to zoom out and zoom in, and not be just big picture, but not be totally in the weeds, but to be able to switch between them. And I do think that's my secret sauce that I'm able to navigate that deftly in a way that I think other people get stuck in.
Gresham Harkless 9:15
Awesome. So I wanted to switch gears a little bit. And I wanted to ask you for what I call a CEO hack. So that could be like an app or book or habit that you have. But what's something that makes you more effective and efficient.
Dr. Nicole Gravagna 9:25
My CEO hack is to bring people in when I can to do the things that I can train them to do. And so I'm constantly thinking about how can I remove myself from this situation. And sometimes when you're building an organization, it becomes so much about you. And when I just have that overall arching goal of making myself removable, either so I can go on vacation for a month or so that I could sell the company and it can function just as fine without me. Those things make my life easier in the day to day but they also allow the organization to be more sustainable, because then it's not dependent on me my health or my energy levels.
Gresham Harkless 10:06
Exactly. No, I love that. And so I wanted to ask you now for what I call a CEO, nugget. So that could be like a word of wisdom or a piece of advice, or something, you might even tell your younger business self?
Dr. Nicole Gravagna 10:15
So the lesson that I needed to learn back then was that my value is inherent, I don't have to prove it, I just have to do the things I said I would do every day. And as long as I keep up with that very, it feels minute to say, I'm going to do something and then do it. I said, I'd send you an email, and I do it. I said, I would finish this document, and I do it.
Gresham Harkless 10:41
Awesome. Awesome. Awesome. So I wanted to ask you my absolute favorite question, which is the definition of what it means to be a CEO. And we're gonna have different, quote-unquote, CEOs on the show. So Dr. Nicole, what does being CEO mean to you?
Dr. Nicole Gravagna 10:51
No matter how small the company is, or how big the company is, the CEO sees the whole thing, they may see the whole thing from a great distance, they may see the whole thing without really understanding the detailed parts of the bottom of it. But they see the whole thing and they they care about the movements of the whole company. That's what the CEOs job is to do.
Gresham Harkless 11:11
Absolutely makes so much sense. And being able to kind of see holistically exactly what the company is all those different aspects, as we kind of talked about and alluded to earlier in the interview. But definitely appreciate that perspective. And appreciate that holistic definition as well, too. And of course, appreciate your time, what I wanted to do is pass you the mic, so to speak, just to see if there's anything additional, you can let our readers and listeners know. And then of course, how best they can to hold view, get a copy of your books and hear about all the awesome things that you're on.
Dr. Nicole Gravagna 11:35
Yeah, so I'll take this opportunity to talk about the book mindset, your manners, we didn't talk about that yet. And we talked a little bit about integrity. And that's a big part of what comes up in mindset, your manners in terms of that it is so powerful, and how to use it in a way that it is hard to imagine how to always come through with the things you said you were going to do, especially when you're setting themselves, you're setting yourself up maybe a little bit for failure, but you're setting yourself up with outcomes instead of with the things that you have control over. So mindset, your manners was a book that I wrote, when I was making my own transition from being a struggling CEO type that it's not that my companies weren't doing well, they were but I had an internal struggle where things just were not going gracefully. For me. I was fighting with myself, I was fighting with other people, it was tough. And I took a class, I made a big shift, I read a lot of books, and I figured out what I was doing wrong, I realized there must be another way. And so I wrote mindset, your manners, it's not about me, it's about the path that somebody takes, it's a bit of an instruction booklet on how to do this in a way that isn't going to kill you, you really can do a lot. You can do more than you think you can without feeling like you're doing too much, as long as everything is sorted within you. And so this, that shift was so huge for me to be able to have sort of a clean internal self trust, and to be able to move forward that way. Because before I really didn't have that.
Gresham Harkless 13:03
Yeah, that's extremely powerful. And I think that again, you know, having that compass internally, that you're measuring yourself by measuring goals, and you're looking at the kind of day to day task or the minute by minute tasks, whatever, how are we break that down? Rather than the outcome? I think so many times, we're like, you have to have, you know, 50,000 in sales or whatever, when in reality, we should be focusing on those things that we can do on a daily basis and measuring our success according to that rather than the end result, which we can't necessarily control.
Dr. Nicole Gravagna 13:30
Yeah, and I mean, even to this day, I find myself doing getting into that place where I feel like muddy inside stirred, like stirred up water. And I think, Okay, what, what am I doing that I know better? I shouldn't be here. Usually, I've set myself up with too big or too big to do list. It's things that are actually impossible to accomplish within a single day. So now I have this list of paper that I'm supposed to do, but I can't actually do it. It's. And so I've set myself up for not trusting myself. So I take that list and I slash a bunch of things. And it scares people to do that. And you think, Well, I have to do all these things. Otherwise, they wouldn't be on my list. But you don't, there's always a way to slash it. There's always a way to take something off and it or give something to someone else. Or pause something and just call someone up and say, hey, guess what this report I said would I'd have to do by the end of the day? It's not going to be too until the end of the month. Sorry. It's just the way it's going to be.
Gresham Harkless 14:29
Yeah.
Dr. Nicole Gravagna 14:29
And now, I hope that you can I hope this doesn't ruin your day or your year. But this is just the way it's gonna have to be. And a lot of times asking people where you can get a little bit of flexibility hit Hey, did you really need this report by the end of the week? Can I have two weeks? A lot of times they say yes, it really does extend what you're capable of accomplishing, so that you can continue to trust yourself.
Gresham Harkless 14:54
Yeah, absolutely. And as you said, you can set those or hit those goals that we set internally because so many times we and I say that even about sometimes things that don't go as we want them to go according to plan, sometimes we go to more in our heads than it actually is. And being able to kind of understand that being aware of oneself as well to to understand like, Okay, why do I feel that that muddy waters as you, as you kind of spoke to being aware, you can start to make changes to make sure that you are kind of staying in alignment with who you are?
Dr. Nicole Gravagna 15:22
Yeah, I mean, I've had recently, a couple of muddy water incidents, and I'm like, okay, it is time to hire somebody to handle it.
Gresham Harkless 15:29
Yeah.
Dr. Nicole Gravagna 15:30
Because I've just just sitting on my to do list and not happening. So here we go. Just gonna hire a consultant to make it happen.
Gresham Harkless 15:36
Yeah, absolutely. And it's great that we're able to kind of definitely do that. So I truly appreciate that. And definitely looking forward to the book as well too. Is there anything additional you want to let our readers and listeners know and then how best they can get a copy of the book and get a hold of you?
Dr. Nicole Gravagna 15:49
I'd like them to look into Quora. it's it's just a great platform for writers and readers. People ask all kinds of questions from How To Grow bonsai tree to how do I go this relationship that's failing. So I mean, it could be literally anything that people are into. I really like writing on it. And so if if people are interested in more of the things that I have written about, or things that I had to say, that's a good place to start.
Gresham Harkless 16:11
Awesome, awesome. Awesome. Well, we'll definitely have the links and information in the show notes so that they can follow up with you and see everything for core. And definitely appreciate your time, obviously, and I hope you have a phenomenal rest today.
Outro 16:22
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